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July 15, 2019

Who’s Hal?

Hal Hughes is a former MMA fighter who has served his province as a police officer for the last fifteen years. Over the course of his career, he sustained two separate severe traumatic brain injuries, five years apart. These combined incidents would lead to diagnoses of PTSD and Bipolar Disorder, as well as seeing “Officer” Hal fighting with addiction. In his keynote speeches, Hal explains how he rebuilt himself from a suicidal recluse into to a leader who helps other first responders and military personnel deal with trauma and reclaim their lives. In addition to being a husband and father of four, Hal is also a member of Mensa, and is currently completing graduate work in psychology.


Anything but ordinary, “Officer” Hal does not simply stand and deliver a keynote address. He creates an engaging experience for the audience whereby he infuses energy, insights, and emotion into the room. His candid revelations about himself and his experiences as a police officer, combined with a brutally honest delivery, always evoke both laughter and tears from his audiences.

Emotional Resiliency 

Success in our all of our lives and relationships is based on our mental and emotional resilience. Very little training is ever offered on how we create our emotional states, or the perspectives needed to rise up stronger from the inevitable struggles we face in life.

Building resilience is an essential tool required in our mental toolbox more so now than ever in today’s world.  The ability to adapt well to adversity, trauma, tragedy, threats or even significant sources of stress, can help not only us but our children manage stress and feelings of anxiety and uncertainty. However, being resilient does not mean that we will not experience difficulty or distress. But it does offer an opportunity to cope, deal with, or process that distress.

The beauty of resilience is that while it’s partly about your personality and your genetic makeup, there are also some very learnable skills. Hal’s resilience practices and techniques are something that each and every one of us can implement into our everyday lives.


Whole Therapy is proud to present and host

“Up Yours” – An Emotional Resiliency Workshop

With Hal Hughes

Anyone looking to increase their resilience to life’s stressors (trauma, divorce, mental illness, disease) and the hardships of life in general should definitely consider this a can’t-miss afternoon. Nobody teaches us in high school how to move forward in life when the going gets tough, or worse. The skills and habits learned during this workshop are designed for just that purpose. Life can be a battle: arm yourself for success. Why settle for just getting by when we were truly meant to flourish!

Take home from this engaging seminar a very specific set of perspectives, principals, and habits. All designed to help steer you towards finding your happiness as well as assisting you to refocus on your true purpose and finding meaning in your life!

Topics Include

  • Mastering Emotions: How we create every emotion we feel in our lives, and how to start creating better ones.
  • Principals of Resilience: Specific tactics and perspectives for engaging with the world in a way that leads to more positive emotions and relationships.
  • Habits of Resilience: A very specific and dynamic set of daily habits which are guaranteed to impact one’s life.
  • Carpe Momento Meditation: A warrior based meditation; simple, practical, and effective for those engaged in the battle of life.

Check out a snippet here of Hal in action! 


Workshop Details

When: Saturday October 5th – 1 pm To 5 pm
Where: Whole Therapy – 212-2650 Queensview Drive
How much: $65.00 plus HST
Why: Because you deserve to be the best version of yourself as possible!

Contact Whole Therapy
613.599.2311 or to reserve your spot today!!






Posted in Uncategorized by Pat Moore
June 27, 2019

Hi! My name is Dylan and I’m addicted to school.  Ok not really, but I did recently graduate from my third post-secondary institution. Apart from gaining two degrees and an advanced diploma, I’ve gained a lot of knowledge along the way.

Johnston Hall – University of Guelph

I attended the University of Guelph, where I completed my B.Sc in Human Kinetics. There, I learned about the human body and had the opportunity to study in the cadaver lab, giving me a real-life glimpse of the human body and the ability to actually SEE what the muscles are doing during movement. I also learned that I LOVED physics. Imagine my surprise when I found out biomechanics was a thing and it was essentially physics for the human body!! I also wanted to give back to the community, so I became a volunteer exercise assistant at a health centre, where I assisted with exercises for older adults. Moreover, during my last year at Guelph, I did a fourth-year project where I researched fall prevention and older adults. My volunteering and my project fueled my passion for research and hands-on learning even more.

After my four years in Guelph, I wanted to research some more into the world of biomechanics. The next stop on my educational journey was completing my M. Sc at the University of Ottawa.  My research was focused on looking at older adults and how they adjust to sit-to-stands at varying levels of fatigue. But I learned so much more than that. During my time at U of O, I learned perseverance, accountability and initiative. I preserved from writing through all the different edits of my thesis, I was held accountable for my research when it was not going as planned, and I took initiative to reach out and contact those who could help me. I may have gained a degree from that school, but more importantly, I grew as a person there. And I discovered, post-graduate degrees were not for me. To my family’s relief, I was not planning on doing my PhD- Thanks to all my family and friends that I made walk up 7 plus flights of stairs to make my thesis happen!

Apart from completing my Masters, I believed it was a good idea to become a Registered Kinesiologist (R. Kin.) as well. So, I spent one winter studying for the registration exam, reading endless textbooks and memorizing the attachment points of muscles – Again!  I became a R. Kin. in the summer of 2015 and was lucky enough to have found a job working as one!  In that role, I was able to use my research in a practical setting. I was able to help people pre and post orthopaedic surgery, help patients manage pain, and help decrease arthritic flare-ups, all through the power of movement and exercise! Helping these patients, just through exercise, made me want to do more and that’s when I went back to school, for the third time, to become a Registered Massage Therapist.

I  have recently graduated from Algonquin College in the Massage therapy program, and the things I learned there were amazing. Apart from learning how to massage, I learned time management skills and the importance of maintaining boundaries. I learned that college was a different kind of hard. Almost like a fun challenge that made you also want to pull all your hair out.  Maybe most importantly, I learned  that I was going down the correct career path and I’m ecstatic on how well massage compliments my skills as a kinesiologist.

So, what does this all mean? Whole Therapy is lucky to have gained a (soon-to-be) RMT and a Registered Kinesiologist, who has years of experience in the fields of movement and exercise. Not only will my RMT touch help to ease pain and increase range of motion of a joint, but my R. Kin. eyes will be able to look at your movements as a human being and come close to pin pointing what needs to be worked on.


My name is Dylan, and I’m a life-long learner and a two-for-one therapist.

Dylan Crake
Registered Kinesiologist
and soon to be Registered Massage Therapist!

June 12, 2019

The word Osteopathy usually comes with a question mark after it. Although well recognized in Europe, Osteopathy is not as well known here in Ontario (The fact that Osteopaths have a hard time defining Osteopathy doesn’t help in that regard).
In this short article I will try to describe and define Osteopathy to the best of my ability, as a first-year student of Osteopathy.

The History

Dr. Andrew Taylor Still

Osteopathy began with Dr. Andrew Taylor Still, born in 1828 from Kirksville, Missouri. Despite being a medical doctor, he lost three of his children to spinal meningitis. This was at a time in our history when medicine was still far from advanced. These deaths were the catalyst that led the determined Dr. Still to seek alternative health solutions. 

The Principles

After studying the anatomy of the human body in great depth, Dr. Sill created three principles that would become the base of modern-day Osteopathy:

  1. The body is a functional unit. This means that the parts of the body do not work in isolation, but in cooperation. For example, when we have pain in the wrist, we often find that there are problems in the elbow, shoulder, neck, etc.
  1. Secondly, the body’s form (structure) and function (activity) are interrelated. This means that by helping the body’s function, one can improve the structure.

For example, when we get an injury to the wrist (damage to the structure) as a result of overuse of the hand, we can correct the function of that wrist through manual therapy. This, in turn, will help to correct and repair the strain in that structure. As a result, the body will be able to slowly repair the injury and hence the structure will change.

  1. The body has self-healing properties. Sometimes, these properties are dormant and just need to be reawakened. In this case, the Osteopath’s role is not to heal, but to facilitate healing.

Going back to the example of the wrist, often the body will try to compensate for the lack of function in the wrist, which will create more problems. But compensating means that the body is allowing for the wrist condition: it will not necessarily get better.  Mobilizing that wrist, and related structures (elbow, shoulder, neck etc) sends a message to the nervous system that the condition that the wrist is in right now is not optimal and that healing is needed.  

How Osteopathy has Changed

As Osteopathy spread throughout the world, it has gone through significant changes and has been subject to much interpretation. As a result, there are now as many definitions of osteopathy as there are osteopaths (ok not really but still, lots!)

The style of Osteopathy that I am learning is known as Clinical Osteopathy, which means that first and foremost we address the client’s immediate symptoms. Carpal tunnel in the wrist, for example, we look at the immediate environment. (ie hand, wrist, arm).

Secondly, we then address the bigger picture. What happened in the shoulder? What happened in the neck? What happened in the back? How can we remove the strain from the system as a whole so that the injury will heal, but also so that this problem will be less likely to occur in the future?

What can an Osteopath Treat?

An Osteopath can address joints and bones, they can help with nerve tension, ligaments, fluid stagnation, muscles tightness, energy, and more. The methods used vary and depend on the goals, condition, and needs of the client.

The more I learn about Osteopathy and manual therapy, the more amazed I’ve become at how much can be done to help people that are in pain and in distress. While I can’t promise to make miracles happen through Osteopathy, I am definitely encouraged at the possibilities it presents in terms of helping people get better. A big part of the healing process depends on the client’s lifestyle and willingness to change what causes problems in their body, I’m really looking forward to working in partnership with clients, armed with plenty of new tools inspired by Osteopathy!

An Ongoing Process

To develop the skills of an Osteopath takes many years and I’m just now making my first steps. I’m humbled by the depth of the skills shown by many therapists that I’ve been treated by already, and I aspire to arrive at that level of skill and finesse one day!

As a student of Osteopathy and as a Registered Massage Therapist, it’s also very important to know what I can not do, I cannot cure arthritis in the joint, unfortunately, I cannot cure cancer.

What I can do is help with increasing your mobility, reducing you pains in various muscles and joints throughout your body. I can help with the overall relaxation of your body, which in turn can boost your immune system. I can help with headaches, jaw pain and lower back pain as well.  As an Osteopath, I’ll be able to help with digestion to some degree and helping people get better sleep! (Looking forward to that!)

What About The Science?

To be completely honest, not all techniques that Osteopaths use can be proven scientifically; this is due partially to the fact that Osteopathy came in to the world at a time when the methodologies were not fully developed, and partially because we are still so far from fully understanding the human body and all of its intricacies. As a keen investigator of the human body, I don’t take everything that Osteopathy teaches as a fact, but rather test it and question it to see what works.

I feel very fortunate to be able to work with such a variety of excellent therapists at Whole Therapy; we are always doing our best to learn from each other regardless of the modality being used. We all believe we have plenty to learn and teach each other!

Most of all I’m trying to learn from my clients to see what works and what doesn’t. That feedback is the most important information of all!

To sum it up, I believe that a big component of the therapy is the client / therapist relationship. As long as we keep an open line of communication during treatment, that feedback, along with my skills as an RMT as well as the tools I’m developing through Osteopathy will go a long way in helping me get you back on your path to health and wellness!


Roy Cohen is a Registered Massage Therapist at Whole Therapy who is currently studying Osteopathy. Although he currently does not practice as an Osteopath, his Massage practice reflects his learning on the subject.

Posted in Uncategorized by Pat Moore
May 30, 2019

Stage fright and fear of public speaking are some of the most common powerful fears in our society. Why would this be? In almost every case, logically there’s nothing to fear. We’re not going to be physically harmed, people aren’t likely to throw tomatoes at us, so why such visceral fear and avoidance?

Every negative feeling arises from one of two roots. Fear of loss of safety and fear of loss of love, which includes social standing, respect and the opinions of friends, family and the public.  The subconscious mind has more than a million times the neurological processing power of our conscious mind. Every word, action, tone of voice and body language experienced when young, informs the developing perceptions of our world and the degree of security and acceptability we feel within it. Core beliefs are formed by the age of six and become our “operating system”. These matter deeply because it’s estimated ninety five percent of our conscious thoughts, decisions and perceptions are shaped by these early subconscious programs (i.e. beliefs).

When it comes to working with stage fright and fear of public speaking, I’ve found Emotional Freedom Techniques including Picture Tapping Techniques to be so powerful I warrant the results. So how does it work? Stage fright is a big powerful “thing” for many. It seems too big to get a handle on. But every big “thing” is made up of smaller parts. By starting with a small manageable piece which is at the top of the pile, we can allow the conscious and subconscious minds to collaborate in figuring out the whole story attached to that feeling or belief.

Specific patterns of acupressure tapping keep the fight/flight/freeze part of the brain busy while this examination is under way. In some cases we’re starting with a specific element of fear, in others it may be the physical sensations felt at the thought of performing or speaking.

I remember a brilliant doctor who found the thought of lecturing to be extremely stressful. As we followed the pieces, we uncovered his subconscious train of thought. “I don’t understand or trust technology -> I can’t rely on it to work for me -> If it fails, I’ll be trapped and helpless -> Hmm, I suppose there will be a sound technician there, here could fix the issue -> I could print out a copy of my slides so if the worst came to the worst, I could use my own copies to keep me on track. I really do know my stuff. The slides are just a convenience. -> Actually the audience won’t be judging me for the tech failure. They’ll just be very happy they’re not the person in that position. They’ll be on my side, have compassion for me and respect me for not falling apart in this circumstance.

For another doctor, his biggest underlying concern was that someone would ask him a question he couldn’t answer and the audience would judge him as incompetent. As we worked through the beliefs wrapped around that, every part of him came to realize his peers would have total respect for “we don’t yet know” or some such reply. Intellectually they’d always known these things, but the old programs laid down in the subconscious were whispering a different and paralyzing story.

The search for perfection is paralyzing. Striving for excellence is inspiring.

For performers such as singers, the subconscious is trying to keep them safe the best way it know how with the programming laid down since they were young. Often there’s an underlying catastrophizing process going on. “If I’m not perfect, I’ll be horrible and everyone will be disappointed in me or judge me” Re-processing and rewriting the old subconscious programming attached to these feeling  sets them free to be in them moment and take pleasure in striving for excellence.

During the course of this work, clients begin to develop real self-compassion. Understanding at every level that being human is both a great and a challenging reality.

We all do the best we know how, with the tools we have at the time. It’s never too late to get better tools. No matter what our earlier childhood programming and experiences, we all have the opportunity to learn to become warm encouraging, nurturing mentors to our inner child. We don’t have to worry about how good we are at it at any time, because he or she isn’t going anywhere. We can go back as often as we need to, to gently educate, reassure and heal hurtful, fearful or limiting beliefs; without trauma.

To learn more about these techniques, set up an initial interview with David Gilbert. Our gifted Integrative Therapist. He can be reached directly @ 613-747-5458 or . Offering work so powerful it’s guaranteed.

Posted in Uncategorized by Pat Moore
May 22, 2019

Springtime is the start of golfing season, which is the time of year to pull out those clubs and take advantage of the warmer weather. In this article, I am going to talk specifics by explaining how flexibility helps you reduce injury and achieve a more powerful swing, as well as how to maintain that flexibility to ensure you have the most enjoyable experience.

We all know that flexibility is important. We throw the word around all the time, but often do not know why it is so important, specifically with golf. Flexibility as a whole refers to all the soft tissues within the body moving freely and without restriction. When this is sufficient, you are able to obtain full range of motion without having to compensate elsewhere. This is important for two main reasons; it avoids unnecessary injury and improves the power of your swing. Let us look at these points in more detail.

There is nothing more disappointing than getting out for the first golf game and walking away in pain, or even injured. Unfortunately, this is all too common because over the winter months, our muscles stiffen up with the lack of activity. This has some serious implications for proper posture, resulting in injuries to the neck, shoulders, back, hips, knees and ankles – the most common golf injuries that result from lack of flexibility.

To understand why unrestricted movement is so important, we need to first dissect the swing. As previously mentioned, posture is critical. To make successful contact, you must rotate your body while keeping your shoulders square and your eyes on the ball. If you have limited flexibility in any area, what starts happening is that you struggle to get the rotation (shoulder turn) you need to drive the ball. This shoulder turn not only keeps the club on the proper path, but is entirely responsible for the power behind your drive as well. Therefore, unrestricted movement allows for a wider and more controlled shoulder turn, greater core rotation, direct vision of the ball at all times, a direct path for your club, and ultimately more power and distance upon contact.

On the reverse side, when there is restriction in your torso, arms, hips, legs, etc., this interrupts the smooth coordination between these movements. Unfortunately, as a human, you are very smart and very stubborn, so you still find a way to hit the ball. In this circumstance, your body instantly starts figuring out a way to complete the task regardless of your restricted movements. So imagine this, with your eyes on the ball, you go to rotate your body backwards to wind up your swing. Unfortunately, at a certain point during that rotation, your body literally stops because of restrictions you have from tight muscles. From that point, in order to complete the task you now need to compensate using other parts of your body. So what happens? Well, you have reduced rotation in your core and your shoulders. Thus, the only other option is to use your arms instead of your trunk to complete the task. You are now driving your swing almost entirely by your arms as opposed to benefiting from proper posture, and the power of your core and shoulder rotation. In sum, you have significantly less power, a disappointing shot, and more often than not walk away with pain and/or injury from the overcompensation.

At this point, the importance of having proper flexibility when golfing should be clear. So let us touch on the proper way to work on this before diving into your game. First and foremost, always remember to warm up before you stretch. And no, this does not mean a walk from your car to the driving range. I am talking about a good, thorough warm up that gets your blood pumping.  Athletes everywhere call it a warm up for a reason – because of the overall sense of warmth you experience throughout your body. You should often feel a light sweat coming on as well. So, be sure to use these two bodily responses gauges to whether you have done it correctly.

As previously mentioned, walking from the car to the range does not tend to provide the proper warm up needed for the game. Therefore, here are some very simple options that are highly effective, quick, and require no equipment:


  1. Side steps 
  1. Marching in Place 

Once nicely warmed up, the next step is to start stretching. One very important thing to consider while doing so is that you always need to keep the stretch in a pain free range. Move gently with your body and do not try to force the stretch. If you find yourself going outside of that comfort zone, back off slightly, take a deep breath, relax, and let your body guide you.

If you are just starting and not sure what and/or how you should be stretching, these following stretches are by far a couple of the most amazing for golfers looking to improve their game. The Backswing Stretch touches on all the critical flexibility points necessary for a proper drive, and the Latissimus Dorsi Stretch really allows for that full rotation by stretching out the shoulders. Complete the following steps for incredible stretches that will loosen everything up in all the right places.

Backswing Stretch: 

  1. Take a wide grip on the golf club with one hand at either end.
  2. While holding onto both ends, rotate backwards in a slow, smooth, and controlled fashion (same motion as during your swing). Again, do not rotate so far as to cause pain.
  3. Come back to center.
  4. Slowly rotate to the other side.
  5. Repeat steps 1-4 alternating from side-to-side until you feel little remaining restriction.


Latissimus Dorsi Stretch

  1. Stand your club upright in a vertical position.
  2. Place both hands on top of the club.
  3. Drive your hips back as you drop your head between your arms, feeling a nice stretch through your shoulders and down your sides.
  4. Hold for at least 15 seconds, release the stretch, and repeat.
  5. Increased stretch – while still bent over in the stretch, bend your left knee and very slightly rotate to the right (right should towards the sky) – this should increase the stretch in your left shoulder.
  6. Hold for 15 seconds, and then switch to your left side by slightly bending your right knee and slightly rotating to the left (left shoulder to the sky).
  7. Continue rotating from side-to-side, holding for 15 seconds each side until you feel your shoulders loosen up.

NOTE: You can also do this stretch one arm at a time if preferred. Simply place one hand on the club and follow the same steps.


Cory Boyd

Registered Massage Therapist
Personal Trainer
Certified Golf Fitness Instructor
















Posted in Uncategorized by Pat Moore
May 15, 2019

When we’re young, we’re the center of our own universe; or so we assume. During this time, the subconscious mind has more than a million times the neurological processing power of our conscious mind. Every word, action, tone of voice and body language experienced when young, informs the developing perceptions of our world and the degree of security and acceptability we feel within it. Core beliefs are formed by the age of six and become our “operating system”. These matter deeply because it’s estimated ninety five percent of our conscious thoughts, decisions and perceptions are shaped by these early subconscious programs (i.e. beliefs).

The subconscious has a number of roles and one of its most important is to keep us safe. The best way it knows how, given the early programs/beliefs it’s taken on. One powerful method it employs is to make us far more self-critical and self-judgemental than we would ever consider being with anyone else. The subconscious belief is that this will prevent us from being unsafe or unacceptable to those around us. This often leads to assumptions that anything positive said or implied about us can’t be true. They’re just being kind or polite. On the other hand, any negative words, body language or expressions are taken as self-evident truth.

For many of us, these translate as negative tapes running in the background of our consciousness. An interesting test is to become aware of these harsh self-talk tapes. When hearing them, stop and really think about whether you would ever talk/judge so harshly with a friend or child.  Just the act of continually assessing self-talk through this lens can gradually lessen the power of these old programs.

A much more direct and elegant way is to harness the power of Emotional Freedom Techniques, (EFT, Tapping, Picture Tapping Techniques). Every feeling is attached to a belief. By using the language of feelings, we can open a collaborative dialogue between the conscious mind with its life time of rational thought, knowledge and understanding and the subconscious mind carrying all our early programming and beliefs. With the support of an experienced and skilled practitioner, old programs and beliefs can be brought into the light of day. One safe piece at a time, to be re-examined in the current reality. So every part of our psyche gets to understand “the rest of the story”.

During the course of this work, we begin to develop real self-compassion. Understanding at every level that we are human which is both a great and a challenging reality.

We’ve all done the best we knew how, with the tools we’ve had at the time. It’s never too late to get better tools. No matter what our earlier childhood programming and experiences, we all have the opportunity to learn to become worm nurturing mentors to our inner child. We don’t have to worry about how good we are at it at any time, because our inner child isn’t going anywhere. We can go back as often as we need to, to gently educate, reassure and heal hurtful, fearful or limiting beliefs; without trauma.

To learn more about these techniques, set up an initial interview with David Gilbert. Our gifted Integrative Therapist. He can be reached directly @ 613-747-5458 or . Offering work so powerful it’s guaranteed.


Yours in good mental and emotional health.

Posted in Uncategorized by Pat Moore
May 14, 2019

One of the reasons that diets backfire is because people restrict too much. They allow the number of calories they consume to drop below their resting metabolic rate, or the basic amount of energy or calories needed to run our metabolism for the day.

Eating less than your resting metabolic rate means that your body instantly perceives danger, and in response, will turn on the alarm system that protects you from starvation and slows your metabolism. You go into starvation mode and eat until you inevitably stop the diet — the classic rebound weight gain.

Just think of what happens when you skip breakfast, work through lunch, and finally return home in the evening: you eat everything in sight. Most people are reasonable and know they shouldn’t overeat. Nonetheless, time after time, people repeat the same mistakes.

If you’ve been through a number of diets that have failed, your body has been through this process a number of times. In short, dieting makes you fat.  Ditching that diet mentality becomes crucial if you want to lose weight. You’re embarking on a healthier way of eating, not a diet. Below are some strategies to help lose weight and reduce the risk of diabetes:


1. Cut out the processed stuff and eat real, whole foods.

Eating as many real, whole, unprocessed foods in your diet as possible becomes your best strategy to lose weight and keep it off. Make a switch to whole, real unprocessed foods such as vegetables, fruits, whole grains, beans, nuts, seeds, olive oil, organic, range, or grass-fed animal products (poultry, lamb, beef, pork, eggs), and wild, smaller fish such as salmon.

2. Eat breakfast.

Skipping breakfast means you’re eventually starving, and throughout the day you eat much more food than you need to feel full. To optimize health and weight loss, you need breakfast to spread your food intake evenly throughout the day. And try not to eat for at least two hours before bed.

3. Eat mindfully.

Eating while we are stressed or distracted makes us fat, both because we don’t digest our food properly and because stress hormones slow metabolism and promote belly fat storage. We also tend to overeat when we eat quickly, because it takes the stomach twenty minutes to signal the brain that we are full.

4. Record your thoughts.

Keep a journal. Writing things down is a great way to better metabolize your feelings so that they don’t end up driving unconscious choices or overeating. A diet of words and self-exploration often results in weight loss. You metabolize your life and calories better.

5. Get sufficient sleep.

Get eight hours of quality, uninterrupted sleep every night. You’ll become less prone to cravings and normalize fat-regulating hormones. One study found even a partial night’s sleep deprivation contributes to insulin resistance, paving the way for obesity and type 2 diabetes.

6. Control stress levels.

Chronic stress makes us overeat, not to mention overeating the wrong kinds of food, which ultimately leads to weight gain. Learn to actively relax with meditation, yoga, deep breathing, or any other technique that helps you reduce stress.

7. Get moving, and make it enjoyable.

You can’t exercise your way out of a bad diet, but the right exercise can help you lose weight, maintain weight loss, and control your appetite so you don’t overeat. Ideally you should do a minimum of 30 minutes of walking every day. Get a pedometer to track your steps. Wear it every day and set a goal of 10,000 steps a day. Consider interval training for more intense, fat-burning exercise. Whatever you do, make it fun and you’ll be more likely to stick with it.


If you have any questions about weight loss or all things nutrition or exercise, we’d love to hear from you!
613.599.2311 or


Posted in Uncategorized by Carole Woodstock
April 22, 2019

When I’m working with clients with anger issues, there are always layers and aspects.

We start with the dominant feelings at that moment about a given situation, then use advanced Emotional Freedom Techniques or Picture Tapping Techniques to allow the conscious and subconscious minds to examine the issue from all sides, reprocess it and finally remove the “Big T” or “Little T” traumas attached.

As we do, one by one each of the layers underneath come to light for the same attention.  These techniques are very gentle so the work is safe and clients are not re-traumatized. The following diagram  from the Gottman Institute illustrates this very well.


When anger is getting in the way of living the life you want, consider booking an appointment with me, David Gilbert, Integrative Therapist.

Yous in health and wellness.

Posted in Uncategorized by Pat Moore
April 11, 2019

Most people don’t set out to be angry.  A button gets pushed and they’re gone. They don’t plan it.  It just happens.   All the good intentions in the world go by the wayside once they’re triggered.  Most often, it’s angry hurtful words.   In extreme cases it can result in physical assaults.

These seemingly uncontrolled responses seldom make the situation better.  So why would people who appear calm and rational other times have such sensitive “switches”?   The answer lies in the non-logical parts of our brains.  Just behind the forehead, lies the prefrontal cortex which is responsible for our logical thoughts and planning.  Everything else behind that plays a reactive supporting role.   When we’re feeling calm, cool and collected, we have great blood flow to the logical brain.  It gets to largely stay in charge and works pretty well.

As soon as we become stressed, blood flow begins to be diverted to the more primitive survival portions of the brain.  Now we’re in reactive mode.   Our body gets tense, hormones flood our system and we become combative as our central nervous system triggers the fight part of the basic fight/flight/freeze survival modes.  What determines these responses in reactive mode?  The subconscious mind.

The problem is, the core beliefs and assumptions informing the subconscious mind are laid down by the age of six.  In effect, when we’re stressed, a one to six year old is calling the shots. That’s scary for both the adult and the little kid pulling the levers.  The subconscious mind isn’t trying to be hard to get along with.  It’s just trying to keep us safe; the best way it thinks it knows how.Fortunately, there are powerful  Integrative Therapies such as Emotional Freedom Techniques and Picture Tapping Techniques.   In the hands of a skilled practitioner these allow us to gently and effectively rewrite the early programming through the language of feelings.  Every feeling is attached to a belief.  So negative feelings are the “diagnostics” of where early programming doesn’t fit well with our current realities. Over four hundred clinical studies including brain imaging studies attest to the impact of these techniques.  To enhance the progress of each session, our Integrative Therapist  allows clients to have time prior to each session with a class II medical device system at no additional cost.  In Canada, this is registered for the treatment of pain and circulation issues, but it also helps calm the mind and body.  By reducing the alarm signals being sent from the body to the subconscious, sessions progress more easily.

How effective are these tools? They’re so powerful they’re guaranteed.  Once a client has experienced their first session, they have the option to enter the warranty program. In this program, they purchase an additional four sessions.  In the unlikely event they do not make significant progress within those five sessions, we refund the fees.

To learn more, stop by the clinic and pick up a free Health Pass worth $80.00. This covers the cost of the initial assessment and information session. David Gilbert , our Integrative Therapist can be reached directly @ 613-747-5458.

Yours in good mental and emotional health.

Posted in Uncategorized by Pat Moore
April 2, 2019

As an Integrative Therapist I have many supplementary tools and resources to help clients become more self-secure. Breath techniques are one small but useful tool. Breath is one of the most critical requirements for human life and how we use it profoundly influences our entire being.  Quite literally, how we  breath affects every cell in the body via changes in gene expression; for better or worse.

When stressed, our breathing naturally becomes more shallow and rapid. Triggering the body’s fight/flight/freeze responses which are managed by the sympathetic nervous system. The extreme, is hyper ventilation with that panicky “can’t get enough air” feeling caused by to little CO2 in the body. We need a good balance of oxygen and carbon dioxide in our bodies to function efficiently. The appropriate amount of CO2 actually helps the body utilize oxygen. In fact this is why 1st responders in Europe administer oxygen mixed with CO2 instead of straight oxygen.

Understanding this is great, but the devil’s in the details. Forcing  ourselves to breathe deeply feels hard, and overdoing it can leave us with that feeling anxious and light headed feeling. Hardly calming.

Harnessing the Power of Breath Management


While breathing in, imagine you’re sucking the air down into your lower belly using the muscles in your lower belly. Now gently and naturally exhale supporting your breath by tightening those same muscles. Notice how easy and natural this feels.

When we breathe in, it stimulates the fight/flight/freeze or sympathetic nervous system. Breathing out stimulates the parasympathetic or calming nervous system. When feeling stressed, take a few minutes to do the following.

Draw your breath in deeply from the lower belly; fairly quickly, say a count of 4-6 as feels comfortable. Now hold that breathe for the same amount of time, followed by calmly breathing out using twice the count used on the inhalation. Remember to lift that breath out from that cradle of muscles in the lower belly.

If the stress levels you’re experiencing require more substantial resources, you may wish to book a session with David Gilbert our Integrative Therapist – Providing tools so powerful they’re guaranteed.

Yours in good mental and emotional health.

Posted in Uncategorized by Pat Moore